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The Meaning of Life and I Don’t Deserve Your Love

Thursday, January 21st, 2010

The Meaning of Life and I Don't Deserve LoveThe meaning of life has to do with being happy. Being happy, on the outside, often entails being loved. People confuse deserving love with deserving love from a specific person. I’ve got to clear this up. As you know, I watch the Twitter stream. At least once a day there is someone who is saying, “I don’t deserve your love.” Or, even more poignantly, “I don’t deserve to be loved.”

There is a difference between deserving love as a fundamental idea within the human species and deserving love from someone you want to love you.

The easier one to explain is feeling like you don’t deserve love from someone specific. Suppose you have been in a relationship with someone. Or you wish you were in a relationship with someone, it just has gotten far yet. Then you screw up in some way. You put the other person down. You flirt openly within a third party. You forget an important date or occasion. You drunkenly make of a fool of yourself. Bottom line? Your do not treat well the person from whom you wish love. In that case, you do not deserve love from that person. Who, in their own right mind, would love someone who treats them badly? No one. So, in this case, you may well say, “I don’t deserve your love.”

I can’t get you out of that one. Only you can turn the tide by treating the other person much, much better.

I can help you with the other: “I don’t deserve to be loved.” Yes, you do. Simply because you exist, you are loved by the Omnipresent Intelligent Harmony. This Harmony has caused your vibrations to settle into a frequency that can be seen and experienced by others and yourself. Therefore, even as 3 + 3 = 6, you are loved. You would not be if The Harmony had not “thought” you up. You have a special place with this Harmony because you were deliberately “made.”

Even if you don’t know who your biological father is, even if you don’t know who your biological mother is, you are loved by The Harmony. I know it is hard to understand. But Harmony does not create discord. You are wanted and loved by The Harmony, no matter your birth, because The Harmony would not do anything that would deliberately bring discord to Itself.

You simply cannot say, as if it were truth, that you don’t deserve to be loved. Because in the simplest terms possible, merely because you exist, you are loved. Harmony resonates with harmony. You find the meaning of life, to be happy, when you accept the Harmony in your life. Harmony is just another way of expressing the idea of love.

How does this Harmony treat you? With the utmost respect and care. The Omnipresent Intelligent Harmony cares that you experience the best life has to offer. It does that by loving you, first and foremost.

From this care you may see how it is possible to win the love of another. However, you must keep in mind the other person may not want to love you for any number of reasons. Some of those reasons will have something to do with you, some may not. The other person is always free to say “No” to your love. If you stalk the other person in any way to try to win their love, you are violating them and taking away their freedom. Which is very unloving.

To win another person’s love, you must treat them as well as is possible for a healthy relationship. Their own choice and freedom are highest in that treatment. If another person accepts your attentions and comes to love you for how you treat them, which comes from your own happiness, then love is well won.

You are Loved As You Are and As You Can Be.

You are Loved As You Are and As You Can Be

Remember, you are love just as you and as you can be – by The Omnipresent Intelligent Harmony.

And I invite you to pick up more info about love in your life. I ask to you sign up for Free Instant Access to some of my Force-Source-Resources. One of which is titled, “All the Best – You Deserve It.” Remember, one bit of information can give you a superior point of activation. Just click here and you’ll be on your way. (Or, if it appears there, please sign up now in the upper right hand corner.) These resources will change your life.

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The Meaning of Life and So-Called God’s Mercy

Tuesday, January 19th, 2010

The Meaning of Life and So-Called God's MercyI often monitor the word “deserve” on my Twitter stream. When watching I never see people say they deserve good things from God. They always emphasize that we deserve negative things from God. Or they say that only because of God’s mercy are we not in more misery than we are.

Where are such pictures of God obtained? Oh, yes, I know. I lived through them; almost forgot. (Sarcasm) Parents and churches, mostly, teach that is only because of God’s mercy that we are not more miserable than we are. They say, “If God weren’t so merciful, a reign of terror would befall you because you are so bad.”

I am here today to refute what I see as nonsense. Someone or a group of people have set this figure in the sky as an exacting master who keeps a tally of every good and bad thing we do. Then metes out punishment in cruel ways when we stray too far to the bad side of the ledger. So “I get what I deserve.” Such were the words of my step-mother, almost exactly. She was raised by a group of persons, called a church, that said that God was vengeful, just waiting to punish people for their sins. Keeping a keen eye open for opportunities to make life hell for people here on earth.

Then, if that were not enough, God made a special place for longtime, or big, sinners. It was called Hell, where people would literally burn in eternal penalty, and terrible the pain of it.

What utter nonsense.

The God I know, The Source of All That Is, has no need of a hell. For God as I know It is loving. Indeed, God is Love. Love does not punish in a way such as some think “we deserve it.”

True Love accepts all, forgives all. Moves on.

AcceptanceYes, I believe there is such a thing as evil. I also believe that there is karma. The evil that we do comes back upon us in this life or in another reincarnation. But that is the nature of things. Karma is like 2 + 2 = 5. When we do good it comes back upon us as well, in this life or some other reincarnation. This is not retribution or vengeance; it is just the way things are constructed. If I put my hand on a hot burner, I will surely get burned. When I caress the cheek of an infant in affection or admiration, I am honored for that deed in this life or in another reincarnation.

I think it obvious that if you believe God cruel and vengeful, you’ll always be looking over your shoulder to see what is coming for you. What you have done lately that you will think deserves more misery to be placed in your life? Do you hear the hoof beats of the four horsemen of the Apocalypse bearing down upon you?

Whereas, when you know that God loves you just as you are, with all that you have done or left undone, you’ll be looking forward (not over your shoulder) to an ever brighter day spiritually. When you accept that God accepts you just as you are, the possibilities for growth are endless. What you deserve then is only the best. Not in some arrogant and grasping way, but in the way of love within you. Love for yourself and all who inhabit this planet with us. Set free, you are.

So, you need to understand from this day forward that The Source of All That Is loves you, Accepts you. Promotes your well-being. Wishes you experience only the best.

Today, cast off those thoughts of the horsemen riding you down. Live as if God loves you. For God does love you. If you had every confidence that you could always work in your own best interests, what good would you do today? Do it.

And I invite you to pick up more info about deservedness in your life. I ask to you sign up for Free Instant Access to some of my Force-Source-Resources. One of which is titled, “All the Best – You Deserve It.” Remember, one bit of information can give you a superior point of activation. Just click here and you’ll be on your way.  (Or, if it appears there, please sign up now in the upper right hand corner.) These resources will change your life.

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The Meaning of Life Means To Be Happy With These Extras

Thursday, October 22nd, 2009

It is very easy to say the meaning of life is to be happy. But what does that really mean?

It means you find happiness.

Which consists knowing that you deserve to be happy. I would even say you are entitled to happiness. Happiness is your God-given connection to the Source. It is already built into you.

When you understand that you deserve happiness through connection to the Source, then you know that you may love yourself and others. The Source is All. If The Source is All, then The Source is in you and you are in The Source.

This notion, being eternally connected with The All, gives you self-esteem, when you accept it. But please see I said “accept” it. You do not need to do or be anything extraordinary to esteem yourself. You are a piece of The All – esteem enough for anybody. Just accept it.

From this self-esteem you may develop a positive attitude. If The Source Is All, then The Source supports All. You are supported in everything you do. In this support, then, you may know that All works for your benefit. Who can not have a positive attitude when The All is affirming you?

But, of course, you live in a world that is dynamic. In other words, you are constantly interacting with it. So what does happiness have to do with you interacting in the world? As you are happy from the inside, you beam out that happiness into the world. What you are, is what you’ll get. Who you are inside is who you’ll be on the outside. You beam positivity into the world from your inner core of happiness.

All this comes back around to you in an endless cycle of benevolence. Some name this cycle Karma. You will see and feel this affection when you will look for it. Even looking for it in the midst of tragedies.

Even better than my words here are the “laws” of quantum physics. In other words, I now take this out of opinion and place it in the more substantive world of science. The Universe seeks Harmony. Harmony can be another word for Love. Harmony can be another word for Resonance. When you resonate with the Universe through harmony, happiness, you have placed yourself within sympathetic vibrations, which support you. This harmony gives foundation to happiness, for happiness is harmony. As you beam your bliss into the Universe, it resonates with you and returns the favor over and over again.

The meaning of life is to be happy and that happiness includes the above mentioned extras.

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