The Meaning of Life with Dr. Bob

You were born to beam. So many folks think and act as if their lives are to be without meaning and without happiness.

Let me make this clear. You are free to choose what your life shall be. I am not trying to tell you that unless you do thus and such, your life is not worthwhile. Never.

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Whatever life you choose for yourself, it is of significance. The Universe has need of you.

But why not choose more happiness and meaning? Your were born to beam.

By that I mean you have been given a very special place in the Universe. The Cosmos cannot do without you. You may think otherwise, that the Universe can do without you. If you think that way, you are sadly mistaken.

You were born to experience on behalf of the Cosmos, the Mega-Consciousness. The Conscious Cosmos is One. As One it cannot experience for experience is always in relationship to something else. Hot and cold. Light and night. Sharp and dull.

You can and do experience all those dualities. From your experiencings your feed the knowledge base of the Conscious Cosmos.

You come to know you are of value to the Universe through the meditative arts. It is also in meditation that you find your meaning in life, which is to be happy. From meaning, happiness and purpose your life expands in such a way that it seems as if you actually beam your happiness into the substantive world.

Thus, by my logic, you were born to beam. How much you beam is up to you. Make no mistake, though – you beam to some degree in any case. How about choosing to beam better? That is, why not decide to be as happy as you possibly can be?

How does beaming affect your happiness? Simple. The more you beam, the more you reinforce your happiness. Happiness does not come from beaming, but beaming demonstrates happiness.

This is not demonstration to prove to others that you are happy and have meaning and purpose. You never need prove that you are happy to others. This is a demonstration for yourself.

It energizes your happiness. It puts your happiness into the world. When you have found purpose, meaning and happiness, it seems that they spill over into your corporal life.

How do you beam? By sharing your happiness with others. What does your friend need that you can supply? What does your neighbor require that you can help fulfill? What does the world want that you can supply?

Do you see? Beam as you were born to and you will increase your own happiness. The greater the beaming, the greater the actualizing of your life.

There is where your life is going – to actualization. If taken literally, you are making yourself actual. What does it mean to be actual?

It means you can understand yourself as real. That your life, words, actions, count for something. They do even if you do not set out to beam. Your life counts.

But how would you like to witness that it does? Of course you would. You witness your life as reckoning import by beaming your happiness into the world. You do that by serving others from the foundation of your life’s meaning and purpose.

Begin better beaming today.

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I have a hard time dealing with the incivility that I see all too often in my world. I believe it effects the worldly happiness of us all. I believe it effects the meaning of life as we can find it.

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Whether it is incivility between coworkers, in politics, in international relations, indeed, even in families, lack of civility is, to me, a major problem. People cannot even discuss the simplest or the most profound of ideas without naming calling and aspersion-casting. Courtesy has even fled under the onslaught of mean-spirited dialogue. It seems that some prefer to destroy the other person with personal invective and vitriol.

I reserve the possibility of becoming angry. Anger in itself can be used as a tool to put steel into my backbone when that might be needed. I cannot let any adversary simply run over me. I daresay you might feel similarly. Anger need not be destructive when controlled and used as energy behind a motive.

But setting aside anger as a possibility, happiness inside, that you have found as the meaning of life, cannot be well-lived in a place of discourtesy and disrespect. How long do you desire to remain in someone’s company when they are being rude to you.

When you are rude or disrespectful to someone else, he or she will not wish to be in your company long. Courtesy, respect, regard, honor the other person. These grant him or her value. When others feel valued and honored they are much more inclined to hear and understand you. When you are understood you are better able to beam your bliss into your physical world.

A true indication that you have found the meaning of life, which is happiness, is your desire to express or experience this happiness in the world around you. You convey your happiness to your physical world by doing the very best you can to make it as good as possible. You endeavor to raise up your world and the people in it.

The meaning of life is to be happy. To be happy on the inside through connection to Divine Consciousness almost compels you to experience meaning and happiness in your work-a-day world. You just long for opportunities to express yourself through experience. Your every day is about experiencing.

Think about it for just a moment. What is your life all about? Doing things? Raising a family? Achieving goals? Yes, all of that and more. What do we call that? Experience.

Bucket lists are interesting. People make list of things they want to do or places they want to go before they die. That is experiencing people, places, foods, sights, sounds – experiences. In other words, fulfill your life by experiencing.

It is difficult to experience well in an atmosphere of incivility. Try to make your world as civil as you can. I realize you have no control over other people and events. But you do have control over how you live your life. I did not say you have control over what comes into your life. But, again, you do have control over how you will react to your life.

Be civil, so far as is possible. It will enhance your experiencing. Being civil helps you enjoy your life as you honor other people. When other people feel honored, guess what? They will feel more like honoring you.

Courtesy will cultivate your experiencing with significant impact. Experiencing well will help you fulfill the happiness you know inside. Experiencing happiness inside and out is the meaning of life.

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TaWane came through my office door that had the sign “The Meaning of Life: To Be Happy” on it, black letters on white background this day. (I changed the format of the sign frequently.) TaWane was one of the youngest persons I ever life coached. He was just 17. He held a B+ average at high school, ran on the cross-country and track teams. Close cropped black hair, black eyes.

“What can I do for you TaWane?” I asked.

“Doc, you can tell me why I am here on this earth. It seems I am just another young black kid with a limited future because of an absent father and terrible neighborhood. So, what’s up with me?”

To say I was stunned to silence would have an understatement. “Well,. . .” I fumbled. This is one of those “How far down the rabbit hole do you really want to go?” questions. But he had asked it and maybe he was looking for a solid answer, not some hype and psycho-babble.

“TaWane, do you believe in some kind of God?” He said he did but not the one in pictures that people said were God. He had studied physics and knew some of the relationships within the universe, he said. So, for him God was not a wise old man in the sky directing traffic with hell as the consequence of driving badly. He stunned me once again into momentary silence.

“So we’ve got a God who is consciousness, pure consciousness. Buy that?” I asked. TaWane said he did. “What can Consciousness do?” TaWane proceeded to tell me he thought consciousness could do about anything it wanted. Pure Consciousness, God, he said, could create anything. “But does It create?” I asked.

That gave him a little pause, but only a little. TaWane said that God needed to create in order to experience. Pure consciousness is just that. Pure consciousness does not experience, it only “thinks” about experiencing.

He walked himself into his own explanation of why he was here on earth. “Are you also consciousness?” I asked him. He acknowledged that he was. “Yet, what do you do all day long?” I asked again.

He said, “I experience . . . ” He trailed off as the light in his eyes grew more intense. “And quantum physics tells me I am part of the One. It must be that I am some part of God – experiencing.”

“You are an individualization of the Consciousness of God, to experience on behalf of God. That is the reason you are here, now. This is the meaning of your life. Tell me, what do you feel when you are experiencing from what seems to be your connection to the One?”

TaWane said, “I feel . . . happy.” He had gotten it all wrapped up and ready to take home. TaWane “sailed” from the office that day. He survived his family and neighborhood and leads a productive life today. I first saw in him in the office more than 25 years ago.

You, too, experiencing this blog post, are an individualization of the consciousness of God, experiencing on Its behalf. When you experience life from the core of your being which is connection consciousness to consciousness with God, you are happy. You have found the meaning of your life.

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