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The Meaning of Life: To Be Happy and What Did I Do to Deserve This?

Tuesday, February 9th, 2010

The meaning of life and to be happy have something to do with karma. Karma is simply, yet completely, defined as “the effects of one’s actions.” Like 2 + 2 = 5. Or like when you open a window and the breeze blows in. Yes, I deliberately chose illustrations that are innocent. Because karma does not always bring bad consequences.

Further, karma is not punishment for something you have done or not done. You must see this. It is simply the effects of one’s actions. When something bad happens to you, it may be, I repeat, may be caused by something you did. But it is in no way punishment. Nor is it, then, reward for something you have done right. It is like blowing out the flame on a burning candle. You blow air out your lungs toward the flame and if the air volume is sufficient and forceful enough, the flame is extinguished.

That does not mean, however, that someone else cannot inflict pain upon you. Because that pain is inflicted does not necessarily mean you have done anything wrong. People are free. They will do what they want. Sometimes people do bad things. The hurt you feel from such events may not have been caused by what you did or did not do.

So, you have got to live with the consequences, effects, of what you do or say. That’s karma. But when you feel hurt it does not mean, absolutely, you have done anything to deserve that pain.

There are those who say that the effects of what we do can be carried over several or many lifetimes to be worked out. In other words, one could have done something so heinous in another life that the effects of that act are still being worked out in this life. And maybe it takes more than one lifetime to work them through.

What I say is this: You deserve the best. You are a child of The Creative Spirit; you are spirit yourself. As such all the best is yours, as long as you don’t stand in the way of it. When pain comes your way, as it does for all of us, you haven’t inescapably done something to cause it. Yes, it could be the working out of the effects of some past behavior of yours. Or, it could be that some free human being has caused this pain.

Don’t automatically assume you deserve hurt. DO assume the you deserve the best. The effects of your actions will work themselves out. But the affliction you feel at any moment is not inescapably of your doing.

The meaning of life, to be happy, has to do with accepting that you deserve the very best. Which you do. Believe it. Live it.

And I invite you to pick up more info about deservedness. Sign up for Free Instant Access to some of my Force-Source-Resources. Pick out the one that says “All The Best – You Deserve It,” or any or all of the other freebies. Remember, one bit of information can give you a superior point of activation. Just click here and you’ll be on your way. These resources will change your life.

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The Meaning of Life and the Worth of Your Words

Tuesday, January 26th, 2010

The Meaning of Life and The Worth of Your WordsI found the meaning of life in my own worth. Once upon a time people did not listen to me. I said something and the conversation just went on as if I had never spoken. Perhaps I had nothing worth saying, I thought.

As I personally evolved, I discovered something about myself and about people in general. If you want to have people pay attention to you, you must feel like your words have worth. And the way you feel your words have worth is to know that you, yourself are worthy.

I have seen it both ways. I have watched people speak for 20 minutes and say absolutely nothing of substance or import. These were people who held positions of esteem in the communities to which they were speaking. One person merely shouted one cliche after another for those 20 minutes. Some people raved after the speech as if what the person had to say was extremely profound. Some raved because they wanted to curry favor from this important person. Others raved because they thought the person actually said something.

I did not think the person had really said anything. I checked with other colleagues who are usually honest in sharing their feelings. They felt as I did. Nothing there but hot air. The speaker, however, was listened to because of the worth that speaker felt for herself.

The other side of the coin came as I learned to feel worth in and of myself. As I grow in self esteem, I felt more worthy. As I felt more worthy, I noticed that people paid more attention to what I said. Did they always pay attention? No. The percentage climbed, however, as I matured in self esteem.

How did I mature in self esteem? I came to understand that The Cosmic Thought’s “need” is to experience The Cosmic Thought’s  potential. Cosmic Thought experiences Its potential in the life of every sentient being. I am an individualization of The Cosmic Thought experiencing on Its behalf. The Cosmic Consciousness experiences the cornucopia of Its potential through humans (and all other sentient entities). This happens because we are the incarnations of The Cosmic Consciousness in the physical realm.

You can make this self esteem part of your life as well.

People will then pay more attention to what you have to say and think. Make contact with the Cosmic Conscious through meditation. Find yourself and believe yourself to be an individualization of The Universe, experiencing on Its behave. You words will have weight and significance. You Are An Individualization of God

Caution: Never think yourself the only one who is in contact with the Cosmic Consciousness. Many, many others have been and are in contact. Never think yourself the best amongst all those.

Actually, you won’t have to worry about it because when you are in true connection with The Ageless Fabric of the Universe, you know of no competition between sentient beings. You are content within your own ability.

So, begin today to better understand your own worth. Define yourself as an individualization of God. Accept your own worth. Think reasonably and well from that worth and people will pay attention to you. Your words will have substantial worth and you’ll be carrying on the meaning of life.

And I invite you to pick up more info about your worth. I ask to you sign up for Free Instant Access to some of my Force-Source-Resources. One of which is titled, “Two Free Life Phrases for Self Development ‘I Am My True Self’ and ‘I am Conscious’.” Remember, one bit of information can give you a superior point of activation. Just click here and you’ll be on your way.  (Or, if it appears there, please sign up now in the upper right hand corner.) These resources will change your life.

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The Meaning of Life and So-Called God’s Mercy

Tuesday, January 19th, 2010

The Meaning of Life and So-Called God's MercyI often monitor the word “deserve” on my Twitter stream. When watching I never see people say they deserve good things from God. They always emphasize that we deserve negative things from God. Or they say that only because of God’s mercy are we not in more misery than we are.

Where are such pictures of God obtained? Oh, yes, I know. I lived through them; almost forgot. (Sarcasm) Parents and churches, mostly, teach that is only because of God’s mercy that we are not more miserable than we are. They say, “If God weren’t so merciful, a reign of terror would befall you because you are so bad.”

I am here today to refute what I see as nonsense. Someone or a group of people have set this figure in the sky as an exacting master who keeps a tally of every good and bad thing we do. Then metes out punishment in cruel ways when we stray too far to the bad side of the ledger. So “I get what I deserve.” Such were the words of my step-mother, almost exactly. She was raised by a group of persons, called a church, that said that God was vengeful, just waiting to punish people for their sins. Keeping a keen eye open for opportunities to make life hell for people here on earth.

Then, if that were not enough, God made a special place for longtime, or big, sinners. It was called Hell, where people would literally burn in eternal penalty, and terrible the pain of it.

What utter nonsense.

The God I know, The Source of All That Is, has no need of a hell. For God as I know It is loving. Indeed, God is Love. Love does not punish in a way such as some think “we deserve it.”

True Love accepts all, forgives all. Moves on.

AcceptanceYes, I believe there is such a thing as evil. I also believe that there is karma. The evil that we do comes back upon us in this life or in another reincarnation. But that is the nature of things. Karma is like 2 + 2 = 5. When we do good it comes back upon us as well, in this life or some other reincarnation. This is not retribution or vengeance; it is just the way things are constructed. If I put my hand on a hot burner, I will surely get burned. When I caress the cheek of an infant in affection or admiration, I am honored for that deed in this life or in another reincarnation.

I think it obvious that if you believe God cruel and vengeful, you’ll always be looking over your shoulder to see what is coming for you. What you have done lately that you will think deserves more misery to be placed in your life? Do you hear the hoof beats of the four horsemen of the Apocalypse bearing down upon you?

Whereas, when you know that God loves you just as you are, with all that you have done or left undone, you’ll be looking forward (not over your shoulder) to an ever brighter day spiritually. When you accept that God accepts you just as you are, the possibilities for growth are endless. What you deserve then is only the best. Not in some arrogant and grasping way, but in the way of love within you. Love for yourself and all who inhabit this planet with us. Set free, you are.

So, you need to understand from this day forward that The Source of All That Is loves you, Accepts you. Promotes your well-being. Wishes you experience only the best.

Today, cast off those thoughts of the horsemen riding you down. Live as if God loves you. For God does love you. If you had every confidence that you could always work in your own best interests, what good would you do today? Do it.

And I invite you to pick up more info about deservedness in your life. I ask to you sign up for Free Instant Access to some of my Force-Source-Resources. One of which is titled, “All the Best – You Deserve It.” Remember, one bit of information can give you a superior point of activation. Just click here and you’ll be on your way.  (Or, if it appears there, please sign up now in the upper right hand corner.) These resources will change your life.

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