I felt that way many times going as far back as I can remember. I have felt as if I was born too late, or in the wrong geographic location.

Then I happened on a secret that has led me to begin to have radical freedom. I discovered that when I divest myself of the ideas that were placed in my head by my caretakers, I feel more at home in my own skin because I am freer.

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I do not mean I gave up the ideas, for example, about right and wrong that I was taught. I do mean I gave up those ideas about right and wrong that are inappropriate for me. I was taught that people of color are inferior to so-called white people.

That idea imprisoned me. I have worked to dispossess myself of that concept since I learned it was inaccurate and stupid.

Religion was another major idea I had needed to let go of. There was a time when I was so caught in the web of guilt produced by religion that if I missed going to church one Sunday, just one – for good reason, I wallowed in fear of retribution from God for days afterward.

Then there were all the trappings of religion. It was drilled into me, for example, that the book which was regarded as Scripture was the authentic word of God. Turns out that it is paper and ink and ideas developed by humans but given the aura of undeserved sacredness.

Prophets were a big deal too. Beyond obvious wisdom in the writings of these men (they were almost all men), their words were the absolute truth about future times. Turns out that their words, even if really spoken, were written down after the events occurred. Surely they would portray accurate happenings if recorded after the fact.

The biggest problem I had was being taught that unless I believed in a particular way about a particular messiah, I was going straight to Hell after my death. This was the heftiest prison of all. It was their way or the highway – so the church taught.

Believe precisely in a specific person or I was condemned for all eternity to suffer fiery punishment. Absolutely nothing was said about an all-accepting concept.

It has taken many years to free myself from such tyrannies, tyrannies of the spirit. It need not take you as long to free yourself because here is someone offering this freeing knowledge to you.

Along the way you will find the meaning of life and happiness. These are not discovered as some adjunct to everything else, but as integral parts to the whole.

Whether you begin your adventure of radical freedom with looking for meaning in life, or by discovering radical freedom from tyrannies of the spirit first and then understanding the meaning of life, your road is clear and dry.

You see, to find the meaning of life you need to make contact with The Source of All There Is. When you discover The Source you will see or feel no tyrannies whatsoever. The Source is totally and completely accepting of you just as you are.

When you discover your unconditional acceptance you will be happy. Happy because there is no greater feeling that being absolutely accepted just as you are. This is often called love.

But in the midst of that awesome acceptance you will be free, absolutely free, as well. Acceptance means there are no tyrannies of spirit with which to contend or about which to feel guilty. You are radically free in unqualified acceptance.

When you know perfect acceptance, you will feel at home in your own skin. Why? Because you do not need to be in anybody else’s skin. No tyrannies of spirit here. You do not need to be in any other place than where you find yourself right now. No tyrannies.

Work to free yourself beginning right now. Divest yourself of all tyrannies for all of them, all, are false. While you are at it, you will find the meaning of life and happiness as well.

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Here are three tips to change your mind. See if they do.

Tip One: You need to change your mind and believe happiness can be permanent.

Tip Two: Happiness is not an illusive state.

Tip Three: Happiness can be a decision and not just an emotion.

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Okay. Let’s make more sense out of these tips.

1. Happiness can be permanent. Yes, indeed, catastrophes may happen to you. The death of a loved one, for example. You will be sad and grieve. Quite natural.

But when your connection to the Infinite Harmony is well and thriving within you, you are never cut off from the source of happiness – your total and complete acceptance by the Infinite Harmony.

From loss it is good to grieve. Grief demonstrates the healing process within a human being. Part of grieving is feeling sad or deprived.

But underlying this very natural sadness and grief lies the basic concept that nothing can destroy you because you are so grounded in the Infinite Harmony. The Harmony accepts your grief and sadness and continues to regard you with total acceptance. (Sometimes this total acceptance is called love. Call it as you choose.)

That acceptance is permanent. Even when you stray away from contact with the Infinite Harmony, It is still reverberating throughout the Universe, including in your very core being.

2. Happiness is not an illusive state. Some believe that happiness comes and goes due to external circumstances.

Not when you are thoroughly grounded in the Infinite Harmony. When you know and continually affirm your place in the harmonics of the Infinite, your life is not like throwing darts at balloons driven by the wind.

In the Infinite Harmony you have an anchor that never lets go (unless you will it loose). The Harmony never releases its attachment to you. Only you can cut that cord.

Because the Infinite Harmony is always reverberating throughout the Universe, happiness is not imaginary. It is as real as the fingers on your hand. And it is with you just as often as those same fingers.

When someone emotes that they cannot keep happy, they are the ones who have let go of the connection. Or said there is no service in this area of their lives.

As long as you maintain a linkage with the Infinite Harmony, you cannot be without happiness. There are no elusive states for you. Happiness is “everywhere” and “everywhen,” when you have connection to the Infinite.

Indeed, the very term “infinite,” implies, in my mind, that you absolutely cannot be without it.

3. Happiness can be a decision and not just an emotion. This is the ultimate idea about happiness.

Because the Infinite Harmony is infinite, is everywhere and everywhen, it is always, always, just a decision away.

Whose decision? Yours. Yes, most people think that happiness is an emotion that comes from the circumstances of exterior life when they are just perfect.

Nothing is further from the truth. Joy is the emotion; happiness is the decision. You decide that you are enjoying the total acceptance of the Infinite Harmony, that you are vibrating in sync with It, always.

When you decide to embrace happiness at all times and under all circumstances, happiness becomes permanent.

Take happiness out of your emotions. Let your emotions have joy. But happiness, knowing that you are totally accepted, is a decision. You make it permanent every time you decide you have accepted your acceptance and will live according.

Make happiness permanent in your life – decide to be happy right now.

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You can’t lose weight if you don’t commit yourself to do so.

You will not develop a friendship if you refuse to invest time and effort into it on a regular basis.

A romance will fall short if it not committed to.

You won’t find the meaning of life, which is to be happy, unless you make a guarantee within yourself that you will search until you find what you are looking for.

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The Universe is more than prepared to give you what you want, but you have to be the initiator. Absolute and perfect acceptance is waiting for you within the Universe. But the Universe is so benign that It waits for you to begin seeking.

Beginning is good. To continue in commitment is essential to finding anything.

At the beginning of the year, January, I heard a term that was new to me. I was at the gym for Tai Chi class and the parking lot was crowded with many vehicles. The others in the class remarked as to how full the lot was. They said to each other that there were a lot of resolutioners at the gym that night.

At first I couldn’t figure out what “resolutioners” meant. Just as I was asking someone the definition, it dawned on me – these are folks who made New Year’s resolutions to work out.

Implied was the idea that the parking lot would soon be less and less full as the resolutioners broke their resolutions.

The commitment was lacking.

So what do you need to commit to if you are to find some answers? To find the meaning of life and the happiness that comes with it, you need to commit to making and keeping a significant connection, or liaison, between yourself and The Source of All There Is.

This takes time and effort. There is no substitute.

The time commitment is virtually every day for ten to thirty minutes. Of course, you can start small – just ten minutes – and grow your time. You can also start small with the effort.

In a meditative state, start light by simply concentrating on your breathing. Listen to and be conscious of your in and out breaths.

Over time you will want to explore the many types of meditation available to you. Plus the many forms of meditation – to see which is the best for you. These can involve everything from trying to keep a yellow triangle on a white background in mind, to the standing meditation of Qigong.

When you liaise with The Source of All There Is on a regular and consistent footing, you then need to further that commitment by keeping at it for the rest of your life. Meditation is not something you achieve and then never need do again. To maintain the feeling of meaning and happiness, you need to keep at it.

This keeping-at-it will yield for you the meaning of your life. Happiness is the meaning of your life. You are wired to be happy. When you make connection with The Source you power up that circuit.

When you are in contact with The Source, you will discover that you are completely, totally, unconditionally accepted. These words cannot do this concept justice. In that acceptance you will be happy for there is no higher state of being that being completely accepted.

This acceptance is Love. Love that regards you as worthy no matter what. Happiness is personified in your life.

So, make a commitment. Keep a commitment. Starting right now. Commitment works in every area of life. When you do commit, you will find the answers you are searching for in every area of your life.

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One Person Can Change The World