The Meaning of Life with Dr. Bob

In their search for the meaning of life, to be happy, one of our blog readers asked this question: How to attract the best?

I am not sure they were talking about the best of humans or the best of everything. Fortunately, the principles I am about to reveal apply to both humans and other-than-humans.

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This is not meant to be a flippant answer. To attract the best, you have got to be the best. I have seen it time and again in my 40 years as a full time life coach (clergy), people attract what and whom they want to attract. So, if they are not being authentic in their own selves and how they present themselves to the world, they will attract people who also inauthentic. People who are genuinely happy, attract others who are genuinely happy. Persons who are usually positive in their outlook on life, usually attract positive events and persons to their lives.

One caveat here. Some folks are looking for others to fill the gaps they feel in their lives. You need to be careful here. For example, if you are positive, someone who is negative but wishes to be positive could be attracted to you. You have to take the usual precautions when developing a relationship with anyone. Not everyone is as they seem, of course, on the surface.

First, find the best in yourself. By making constant, regular connection with The Source of All That Is, through meditation, find your own bliss within. Find the best within yourself. Cultivate that best until it permeates everything you do and are. You are not cultivating this to attract others. You are cultivating the best within you that you may be at your happiest. If you are seeking to be the best for others, you will still be their prisoner. You won’t be free to be who you really are. You cannot, then, ever be at your best. Be your best for yourself.

Second, when you have found who you really are and are happy within, OR while you developing happiness within and finding out who you really are, project or beam that bliss into the world. Send out good vibrations. Smile a lot. Be happy.  Act the way you really want to be.

Those people who are like you, will be attracted to you. “Birds of a feather flock together,” is a saying full of truth. It is something like taking a driving route to get to a certain destination, to switch metaphors mid-paragraph. Along the way on that route, others will join you who have the same goal. This way of being and doing will help you develop the kinds of relationships you really want.

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