The Meaning of Life with Dr. Bob

On Twitter there are at least these two quotes circulating from Albert Camus (one of the greatest philosophers of the 20th century):
1. “You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.”
2. “Many people die because they judge life not worth living. I conclude that the meaning of life is the most urgent of questions.”

Of course, anyone has the right to be confused. Or perhaps Camus wrote one quote in one period of his life. Then changed his mind in another period. And, after all, Ralph Waldo Emerson said, A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines. With consistency a great soul has simply nothing to do.

I don’t think the two statements can by Camus easily stand beside each other. I disagree with number one. And, number two, I think it a shame that people come to judge life not worth living.

I say that when you are searching for happiness and you find it, you’ll be happy. Doesn’t that follow, one after the other? I think so. When you make contact and keep connected to The Source of All That Is (God, some will name It), you will find Cosmic Happiness at the core of your being. When this happiness pervades your entire being and life’s work, you will have cemented the meaning of life in your life, for your life. I simply believe that happiness can be found and you can be fulfilled, therefore, in the meaning of life.

I think it a true shame when people find life not worth living. I am sure that circumstances beyond my imagination cause some people to feel that life is not worth living. I hope they make contact with The Cosmic Harmony and understand that their experiences are only temporary. “This too shall pass.” That they can find their way to understanding that life is experiencing and some of what they experience within themselves, they have chosen to assign to the circumstance.

The meaning of life, I too believe, is the most urgent of all questions. All else, fail none, is less important. Yes, some folks, perhaps a majority, go through their entire lives never finding the meaning of life. This is not a scolding, this is a pitying. As they never find the meaning of life they are never happy. Know anyone who seems never, ever to be happy? We all know at least one person who finds fault or its pessimistic all the time. Therefore, they cannot come to the judgement that life is worth living. Complete or nearly complete pessimism leads only to death  – there is nothing left for the thorough pessimist.

Yes, again, we all have tragedies or circumstances happen in our lives wherein we question the meaning of life. I do not mean in any way to minimize such situations or heartaches. But when we find our bliss at the core of our beings, The Eternal Harmony residing there, then we expand our beings and taken in the Whole of Life. In other words, we expand our beings into happiness, harmony, love. And the Universe, as The Divine Consciousness, answers us back with harmonic reverberations.  Then comes peace, a peace that passes all understanding at our intellectual levels. It can only understood in the spirit.

What ought all this discussion lead you to do? Find happiness as the meaning of life. “The purpose of life is the expansion of happiness.” Deepak Chopra. From that happiness find life worth living despite what may be occurring on the outside of your being. Live and be happy. Be happy and live. Imprint this upon your DNA.

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The meaning of life has to do with being happy. Being happy, on the outside, often entails being loved. People confuse deserving love with deserving love from a specific person. I’ve got to clear this up. As you know, I watch the Twitter stream. At least once a day there is someone who is saying, “I don’t deserve your love.” Or, even more poignantly, “I don’t deserve to be loved.”

There is a difference between deserving love as a fundamental idea within the human species and deserving love from someone you want to love you.

The easier one to explain is feeling like you don’t deserve love from someone specific. Suppose you have been in a relationship with someone. Or you wish you were in a relationship with someone, it just has gotten far yet. Then you screw up in some way. You put the other person down. You flirt openly within a third party. You forget an important date or occasion. You drunkenly make of a fool of yourself. Bottom line? Your do not treat well the person from whom you wish love. In that case, you do not deserve love from that person. Who, in their own right mind, would love someone who treats them badly? No one. So, in this case, you may well say, “I don’t deserve your love.”

I can’t get you out of that one. Only you can turn the tide by treating the other person much, much better.

I can help you with the other: “I don’t deserve to be loved.” Yes, you do. Simply because you exist, you are loved by the Omnipresent Intelligent Harmony. This Harmony has caused your vibrations to settle into a frequency that can be seen and experienced by others and yourself. Therefore, even as 3 + 3 = 6, you are loved. You would not be if The Harmony had not “thought” you up. You have a special place with this Harmony because you were deliberately “made.”

Even if you don’t know who your biological father is, even if you don’t know who your biological mother is, you are loved by The Harmony. I know it is hard to understand. But Harmony does not create discord. You are wanted and loved by The Harmony, no matter your birth, because The Harmony would not do anything that would deliberately bring discord to Itself.

You simply cannot say, as if it were truth, that you don’t deserve to be loved. Because in the simplest terms possible, merely because you exist, you are loved. Harmony resonates with harmony. You find the meaning of life, to be happy, when you accept the Harmony in your life. Harmony is just another way of expressing the idea of love.

How does this Harmony treat you? With the utmost respect and care. The Omnipresent Intelligent Harmony cares that you experience the best life has to offer. It does that by loving you, first and foremost.

From this care you may see how it is possible to win the love of another. However, you must keep in mind the other person may not want to love you for any number of reasons. Some of those reasons will have something to do with you, some may not. The other person is always free to say “No” to your love. If you stalk the other person in any way to try to win their love, you are violating them and taking away their freedom. Which is very unloving.

To win another person’s love, you must treat them as well as is possible for a healthy relationship. Their own choice and freedom are highest in that treatment. If another person accepts your attentions and comes to love you for how you treat them, which comes from your own happiness, then love is well won.

You are Loved As You Are and As You Can Be

Remember, you are love just as you and as you can be – by The Omnipresent Intelligent Harmony.

And I invite you to pick up more info about love in your life. I ask to you sign up for Free Instant Access to some of my Force-Source-Resources. One of which is titled, “All the Best – You Deserve It.” Remember, one bit of information can give you a superior point of activation. Just click here and you’ll be on your way. (Or, if it appears there, please sign up now in the upper right hand corner.) These resources will change your life.

I often monitor the word “deserve” on my Twitter stream. When watching I never see people say they deserve good things from God. They always emphasize that we deserve negative things from God. Or they say that only because of God’s mercy are we not in more misery than we are.

Where are such pictures of God obtained? Oh, yes, I know. I lived through them; almost forgot. (Sarcasm) Parents and churches, mostly, teach that is only because of God’s mercy that we are not more miserable than we are. They say, “If God weren’t so merciful, a reign of terror would befall you because you are so bad.”

I am here today to refute what I see as nonsense. Someone or a group of people have set this figure in the sky as an exacting master who keeps a tally of every good and bad thing we do. Then metes out punishment in cruel ways when we stray too far to the bad side of the ledger. So “I get what I deserve.” Such were the words of my step-mother, almost exactly. She was raised by a group of persons, called a church, that said that God was vengeful, just waiting to punish people for their sins. Keeping a keen eye open for opportunities to make life hell for people here on earth.

Then, if that were not enough, God made a special place for longtime, or big, sinners. It was called Hell, where people would literally burn in eternal penalty, and terrible the pain of it.

What utter nonsense.

The God I know, The Source of All That Is, has no need of a hell. For God as I know It is loving. Indeed, God is Love. Love does not punish in a way such as some think “we deserve it.”

True Love accepts all, forgives all. Moves on.

Yes, I believe there is such a thing as evil. I also believe that there is karma. The evil that we do comes back upon us in this life or in another reincarnation. But that is the nature of things. Karma is like 2 + 2 = 5. When we do good it comes back upon us as well, in this life or some other reincarnation. This is not retribution or vengeance; it is just the way things are constructed. If I put my hand on a hot burner, I will surely get burned. When I caress the cheek of an infant in affection or admiration, I am honored for that deed in this life or in another reincarnation.

I think it obvious that if you believe God cruel and vengeful, you’ll always be looking over your shoulder to see what is coming for you. What you have done lately that you will think deserves more misery to be placed in your life? Do you hear the hoof beats of the four horsemen of the Apocalypse bearing down upon you?

Whereas, when you know that God loves you just as you are, with all that you have done or left undone, you’ll be looking forward (not over your shoulder) to an ever brighter day spiritually. When you accept that God accepts you just as you are, the possibilities for growth are endless. What you deserve then is only the best. Not in some arrogant and grasping way, but in the way of love within you. Love for yourself and all who inhabit this planet with us. Set free, you are.

So, you need to understand from this day forward that The Source of All That Is loves you, Accepts you. Promotes your well-being. Wishes you experience only the best.

Today, cast off those thoughts of the horsemen riding you down. Live as if God loves you. For God does love you. If you had every confidence that you could always work in your own best interests, what good would you do today? Do it.

And I invite you to pick up more info about deservedness in your life. I ask to you sign up for Free Instant Access to some of my Force-Source-Resources. One of which is titled, “All the Best – You Deserve It.” Remember, one bit of information can give you a superior point of activation. Just click here and you’ll be on your way.  (Or, if it appears there, please sign up now in the upper right hand corner.) These resources will change your life.