The Meaning of Life, To Be Happy, and What Works Works and What Doesn’t You Don’t Need 94

July 10th, 2010
All right, in the meaning of life, to be happy, we have to establish some ground rules. First, there is no God who demands that you do something a certain way. Or that you do something for certain. God has everything, God is everything. Therefore, God needs nothing from you. Hence, second, there is nothing you can do that is going to be labeled right or wrong by God.

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This is important because if nothing you do is going to make any difference to God, then doing right or wrong is not going to make a whit of difference to God. Do not mistake me here, however, doing right or wrong in your own eyes is very important to you. We’ll get to that in a moment.

You are a singularity of The Singularity, which means that you are part of God. So whatever you do is added to the experience of God. God wants those experiences to Self Actualized. God wants out of God’s “head,” so to speak. God wants to be more than Spirit, God wants to experience. God does that through what you do. But what you do, you choose to do. God does not want you to experience something specific on God’s behalf. Thus, you can do no wrong in God’s eyes. It is all experience.

So what’s it to you? This is it: You can do for yourself what works. In any situation you find yourself in, what is it that is going to work best for you? This is where we come back to the idea of doing right or wrong in your own eyes. Or even in the eyes of society. Some things that you might do, can and will get you locked up. So you’ve got to make that choice. The choice is always yours.

Depending on what you are trying to, trying to accomplish, what works for you in the here and now? The other choice you have is that which does not work. Two choices you always have: that which works for you and that which does not work for you. If it does not work for you, then you can probably disregard it.

If you choose “A” and that doesn’t work for you, go on as best you can to what works for you. If you choose “B” and that works for you, you are on the path you need to be to accomplish what it is you need to accomplish.

This will resonate within you. That which works for you will be like harmony within your soul. That which does not work for you, is like dissonance in your soul. (For some that means like fingernails grating over a chalk board.) One feels good, the other feels bad.  This is where happiness makes its entrance. Resonance within you is another way of characterizing happiness within your self. When things are in harmony within you, you are happy. You have tapped into the meaning of life. When you feel happy inside, you are doing what you need to do. There is then no wrong doing. Within: harmony leads to happiness which leads to the meaning of life.

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The Meaning of Life, To Be Happy, and Live in Today for Yesterday is Gone and Tomorrow Never Comes 93

May 8th, 2010

Part of the meaning of life, to be happy, is to know when to live and keep to that schedule. A great percentage, perhaps 99%, of humanity have this same dilemma. One reader of this blog asked the question, how do I live today’s life? It is good question. It is a radical question.

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It is a good and radical question because so many ask it. My wife and I just got a bill for medical work. Her first reaction was, “How are we going to pay it?” It is a natural question. A real question. One everyone asks who has limited funds. That makes about 99% of us, then, doesn’t it. We just spent some money yesterday that might have helped with this bill. But that money is gone, used in good faith. It cannot be returned, as such. The companion question, then, always is, how will we do this in the future? The two questions are sides of the same coin. They concern themselves with tomorrow and yesterday.

Now, do not get me wrong. All of us need to be spend responsibly and plan for the possibility of a future. But we do not and cannot live in either place, neither past nor future. We live and can only live in the here and now. (You have heard that before, I am sure. But it is a truth that never wears out if taken seriously.)

So, we have got to do three things:

1. Yesterday is gone, learn its lessons and then forget it. There is nothing really that we can do about it. What is done, is done. To worry over what happened or what we did yesterday is a fool’s errand. Someday quantum physics may teach us to travel to the past and change things, reboot. But until that time comes, we have only today.

2. Do not sweat tomorrow, it never comes. Beyond reasonable planning for possibilities, chasing tomorrow and the “brighter day” you promise yourself it must be, it is another dupe’s gig. This is not being pessimistic. It is being realistic. We can “intention” all we want for tomorrow, but when tomorrow comes, it is today and we need to live in it. Don’t ever give up your “intentioning” but realize that you live in this moment only.

3. Make the best of today. If a bill comes that was unexpected, think about what you have in this moment. In this moment you cannot pay the bill. So, why worry about it? I am not asking you to be cavalier about your bills. I am saying, can you write a check today for the full amount? No. I can’t either. What are we to do? The best we can in this moment. Which is to do a little planning as to how it will be paid. Check with the creditor to see if it can be paid in installments. (I did, it can.) Then go on with what you can do today.

Today you cannot pay the bill in full. Drop the worry, then. Could you have prevented the bill from or through the past? No, of course not. Then don’t obsess over what caused the bill. The bill is, that’s all. Today can only be informed by yesterday, nothing more. Go on with what you can do today. Keep to that schedule. That is part of the meaning of life, to be happy; go on with what you can do today .

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The Meaning of Life, To Be Happy, and What A Privilege to Share With You 92

April 24th, 2010

The meaning of life, which is to be happy, would not be complete, in my view, without a good feeling about whatever it is you are doing. In this case I am writing a blog/vlog for you.

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The last couple of days I have felt like this is an incredible privilege to be sharing with you. I know that will sound sappy to some. But so be it. As I have said in other places, blogs and writings, there are three nodes to feeling the power of the Cosmic Consciousness flowing through you. This flow of power is the “to be happy” part of the meaning of life. The three nodes are acquire, rewire, inspire. I call this the Spiritual Circuit.

Acquire means developing resources like reading and other forms of study. This way new knowledge gets into your mind/soul. This knowledge helps enlighten you and aids you toward whatever goal you have for your life. Rewire means that you take the information you have gained through study and make your brain/mind into something new. Actually and literally it has been shown that the brain can and does make new neural pathways and combinations of neural pathways. Very much like rewiring a house with up-to-date circuits and outlets, or hardwiring computer networking throughout your home.

That leaves the node of inspire. This node needs to wired into your mind/soul just as much as acquire and rewire do. Without this third connection, the circuit is not complete. Without this third node attached, the power of the Cosmic Consciousness is thwarted in its flow through you.

That is where I feel the privilege lately. It is my privilege to try to inspire you to be who you really are. Notice, please, I said, “to be” who you really are. The doing comes from the being. Being comes first. Now, of course, not everyone hears me, nor will they ever. But a few people have noticed. I you thank you for that. I attempt to pass along useful information that will help people change their lives for the better. That is such a privilege to me. I get to share with whoever will listen. (Maybe that’s “whomever.” But it doesn’t really matter, does it?) Then those who listen can take the info and use it, or not. As they see fit. You also get to make comments on what I said or wrote. Amazing!

So, thanks for the opportunity to share with you, to inspire you to be who you really are. That’s the meaning of life, to be happy, in who you are and, then, in what you do.

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